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This week, we’re reflecting with Jay Oliver '79
Jay Oliver grew roots at Trinity High School. He graduated in 1979 and returned years later as a volunteer, board member and parent.
Before entering Trinity as a sophomore in 1976, Jay attended nine different schools. He was in Jefferson County Public Schools’ Advanced Program.
Jay’s father made the decision for him to attend Trinity.
“He, rightfully so, always thought I didn’t work to the best of my abilities,” Jay said. “I returned from summer camp before sophomore year, and my dad told me I was going to Trinity. At the time, I was extremely disappointed with his decision because it meant changing schools again. I realized later it was the best decision my father ever made regarding me.”
Jay lived in rural Oldham County, so transportation for extracurricular activities was challenging.
“I did not take advantage of all the opportunities presented to me at Trinity,” he said. “I was tired of the constant school changes. Not doing more during my time at Trinity is one of my biggest regrets in life.”
Despite not being as involved as he would have liked, Jay fondly remembers his Trinity days. He said he and his classmates were there to learn, but it also was a bunch of guys hanging out and having an enjoyable time while doing schoolwork.
English and French teacher Rev. Kevin Caster H’93 was one of Jay’s favorites.
“Father Caster would sometimes ask trivia questions during class,” Jay said. “He was a New York Yankees fan and would offer 100 Reggie Jackson pennies ($1) to the student that could answer the question. I was able to answer many of his questions – and, yes, I took his money.”
Jay always had been mathematically inclined and learned from legendary Trinity math and science teachers Sister Jane Hall (chemistry), Brother Charles Cully (algebra 2) and Joe Bobrowski H’12 (physics).
“The subject being taught may not have been my favorite, but all my teachers were kind and caring people,” Jay said. “I could tell that they loved teaching and truly cared about their students.”
After graduating from Trinity in 1979, Jay attended the University of Louisville, earning a bachelor’s degree in finance. His first career was in the tire business. He later sat for the actuarial exams, gained fellowship in the Society of Actuaries, and worked for insurance companies in Louisville, Boston and Chattanooga. He retired from Humana in 2024.
Despite where life took him, Jay never forgot Trinity.
“Outsiders may think it hokey, but I totally buy into ‘Brothers for Life,’” Jay said. “Trinity became a second family to me during my time there. I didn’t have the stability offered by attending the same grade school for many years and the friend group that is associated with those years. Trinity gave me, and still gives me, something to be a part of.”
Additionally, Jay is still involved with Trinity students; he assists the Academic Team with creating solutions for Governor’s Cup math questions. He is also the assistant technical director for Trinity Theatre, helping with set construction for the performances. Jay’s son, Jack’24, joined the technical crew during his senior year at Trinity. The 2026-27 academic year will be Jay’s fourth with the Theater Department.
Jay also supports Trinity by serving on the Trinity Foundation Board and its Resource Management and Investment committees. He’s a longtime donor to the Trinity Annual Fund, which provides financial aid to over 43% of Trinity families.
“I want the students of today and the future to have the availability to pursue the opportunities that a Trinity education and experience offer,” Jay said. “Trinity has a stellar reputation. For a young man to say ‘I went to Trinity’ carries a lot of weight, especially in Louisville. I know what Trinity did for me, and I am blessed for it.”
Jay and his wife, Karen, have been married 27 years. Jack is studying chemical engineering at the University of Alabama. Jay and Karen are members of St. Albert the Great Catholic Church.
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